The asshole filter thing is so good. I have actually had to tell someone that the reason I don't want to date them is that they allow a competition between their partners and reward whoever is most intrusive and inconsiderate to everyone else. He has, in essence, an asshole filter. I knew I wouldn't take it well if I ended up being punished for keeping my blast radius to a minimum. So yeah. That's a piece I will definitely be passing on.
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The asshole filter thing is so good. I have actually had to tell someone that the reason I don't want to date them is that they allow a competition between their partners and reward whoever is most intrusive and inconsiderate to everyone else. He has, in essence, an asshole filter. I knew I wouldn't take it well if I ended up being punished for keeping my blast radius to a minimum. So yeah. That's a piece I will definitely be passing on.