Short rant on issues involving women.
Jul. 22nd, 2008 06:50 pmOkay. So first, it was the leaked HHS memo that could lead to classifying chemical contraceptives as abortifacents and give pharmacists who refuse to fill those prescriptions protection under conscience rules, and then came the arrest of a woman for killing her child by allegedly severing her umbilical cord in utero. Which would involve managing to poke something sharp up her cervix, navigate the amniotic sac and fluid, and sever the cord. And not bleed out from the severing, or the subsequent miscarriage. Even in the rare condition where the umbilical cord poked through into the vagina, the probability that the child was already dead and miscarried, or would need significant medical help to survive. The arrest was based on the fact that the woman seemed emotional and was apologizing for the child being dead.
Then came another article about Purity Balls... you know, the ceremonies that fetishise a young girl's virginity, try to guilt her into abstinence until marriage, and reduce her to an object, the property of her father and her future husband. Those things. I’m detecting a trend. It has apparently come back into some fashionable vogue to try and return to the way we never were, where Men were Men (and there were no such things as homosexuals, only sinful sodomites, and we don’t talk about them), Women were Property, totally subservient to their husbands and mistresses of cooking, cleaning, and childbearing, Daughters were only worth their bride price and needing to be sold off to the appropriate son for political or financial purposes and all of them virgins, because Everyone Knows that sex before marriage was Wrong and meant that all sorts of icky diseases would inevitably find you... or the daughter would have to mysteriously go see an aunt for a few months, and then would return from her illness, and Boys Would Be Boys.
While I’m probably guilty of it some myself, it would be nice to knock down the prevailing assumption that men somehow know what’s better for women than women do. (Says the male blogger writing about women’s issues) Gone are the days where daughters were valuable financial assets to be married off and sons were valuable financial assets to attract other people’s daughters with. For the most part, while the concept of marrying for love rather than economic stability is new, it is the dominant mode of today’s society. In fact, it is possible now for a couple to remain unmarried for significant stretches of time and stay economically afloat. In this new society, while the idea of women being virgins is still important for some religious beliefs, there is no compelling government interest in the matter, considering the current widespread availability of contraceptive chemicals and barriers that can protect both against birth and against the transmission of diseases. With proper education on their use, it should be theoretically possible for any woman to enjoy her life the way she wants to, whether abstaining from sex for her own personal reasons or engaging in as much risk-reduced sex as possible.
Under that reasoning, the current government’s policy on women’s health and reproductive rights is well away from where it should be. Setting aside all the other functions that they have in addition to the stated one, if religious ideas about purity and virginity are the only reasons why people continue to oppose widespread education and use about birth control, then chemical birth control methods should be legal, regardless of whether one defines conception at fertilization or implantation. Grabs like these as attempts to control women and try to keep them as objects should be whipped solidly and sent back from whence they came.
Oh, and we could stand to get rid of advertisements that purport women are revenge-obsessed bitches, especially when menstruating, too. Thanks.
Then came another article about Purity Balls... you know, the ceremonies that fetishise a young girl's virginity, try to guilt her into abstinence until marriage, and reduce her to an object, the property of her father and her future husband. Those things. I’m detecting a trend. It has apparently come back into some fashionable vogue to try and return to the way we never were, where Men were Men (and there were no such things as homosexuals, only sinful sodomites, and we don’t talk about them), Women were Property, totally subservient to their husbands and mistresses of cooking, cleaning, and childbearing, Daughters were only worth their bride price and needing to be sold off to the appropriate son for political or financial purposes and all of them virgins, because Everyone Knows that sex before marriage was Wrong and meant that all sorts of icky diseases would inevitably find you... or the daughter would have to mysteriously go see an aunt for a few months, and then would return from her illness, and Boys Would Be Boys.
While I’m probably guilty of it some myself, it would be nice to knock down the prevailing assumption that men somehow know what’s better for women than women do. (Says the male blogger writing about women’s issues) Gone are the days where daughters were valuable financial assets to be married off and sons were valuable financial assets to attract other people’s daughters with. For the most part, while the concept of marrying for love rather than economic stability is new, it is the dominant mode of today’s society. In fact, it is possible now for a couple to remain unmarried for significant stretches of time and stay economically afloat. In this new society, while the idea of women being virgins is still important for some religious beliefs, there is no compelling government interest in the matter, considering the current widespread availability of contraceptive chemicals and barriers that can protect both against birth and against the transmission of diseases. With proper education on their use, it should be theoretically possible for any woman to enjoy her life the way she wants to, whether abstaining from sex for her own personal reasons or engaging in as much risk-reduced sex as possible.
Under that reasoning, the current government’s policy on women’s health and reproductive rights is well away from where it should be. Setting aside all the other functions that they have in addition to the stated one, if religious ideas about purity and virginity are the only reasons why people continue to oppose widespread education and use about birth control, then chemical birth control methods should be legal, regardless of whether one defines conception at fertilization or implantation. Grabs like these as attempts to control women and try to keep them as objects should be whipped solidly and sent back from whence they came.
Oh, and we could stand to get rid of advertisements that purport women are revenge-obsessed bitches, especially when menstruating, too. Thanks.