The Snowflake Challenge winds down with a classic of the previous years: Choose Your Own Adventure.
As you might expect, this is open for all sorts of interpretations:
( The Ramble, As You Have Come To Expect It )
In the interests of helping you conserve your energy, I set you the following challenge:
Got a creator whose setting you love but who has turned out to be a trash fire about you and people like you? Jettison them and keep doing the fandom the way that works for you. If there's a bunch of toxicity or purity culture in your fandom and you don't want to engage with any of it, block with abandon and don't feel bad about any of it. (Or, if needed, ditch the platform that's gotten all the toxic people on it and have fun somewhere else.) If you normally would participate in something but you're not feeling that it would be fun, you don't have to do it. If it's become more of a chore than a fun time to watch, or play, or stitch, or read, or express yourself in your fandom, it's okay to take a break and not do it. The epic WIP that you've been stalled out on for the last year? Can be shelved or hiatused or abandoned. Maybe the big picture you wanted to color can remain a sketch or an inked item until you're ready.
Ultimately, even though fandom and fans derive themselves from being fanatical, with all of the behaviors that can entail, if you're not having fun in your fandom, then something's gone wrong. Sometimes that thing is other people being terrible, sometimes that thing is a learning opportunity for us on how to make the fandom better. Hard things or unfun things that do have benefits to you and the fandom, like making it a better place or avoiding an unciritical repetition of the bad decisions of the canon, those I can't grant permission slips for, because I want all of our fandoms to be continuously improving. But for everything else, the kinds of things where we wonder why we spend so much energy on something that's unimportant and fruitless, it's okay to let them go. Here's your permission slip.
In your own space, create your own challenge.
As you might expect, this is open for all sorts of interpretations:
This can be big or small: a challenge that is strictly fannish or one that extends to other aspects of life. It could be a challenge you saw someone else do—that used to run and you miss—or something you’ve thought up just now…even something you yourself are already doing. Earnest, silly, fun, all three! Send us off into the rest of the year by challenging us all to something new.
( The Ramble, As You Have Come To Expect It )
In the interests of helping you conserve your energy, I set you the following challenge:
I'm giving you a permission slip to let go of the things that sap your energy and provide no benefit.
Got a creator whose setting you love but who has turned out to be a trash fire about you and people like you? Jettison them and keep doing the fandom the way that works for you. If there's a bunch of toxicity or purity culture in your fandom and you don't want to engage with any of it, block with abandon and don't feel bad about any of it. (Or, if needed, ditch the platform that's gotten all the toxic people on it and have fun somewhere else.) If you normally would participate in something but you're not feeling that it would be fun, you don't have to do it. If it's become more of a chore than a fun time to watch, or play, or stitch, or read, or express yourself in your fandom, it's okay to take a break and not do it. The epic WIP that you've been stalled out on for the last year? Can be shelved or hiatused or abandoned. Maybe the big picture you wanted to color can remain a sketch or an inked item until you're ready.
Ultimately, even though fandom and fans derive themselves from being fanatical, with all of the behaviors that can entail, if you're not having fun in your fandom, then something's gone wrong. Sometimes that thing is other people being terrible, sometimes that thing is a learning opportunity for us on how to make the fandom better. Hard things or unfun things that do have benefits to you and the fandom, like making it a better place or avoiding an unciritical repetition of the bad decisions of the canon, those I can't grant permission slips for, because I want all of our fandoms to be continuously improving. But for everything else, the kinds of things where we wonder why we spend so much energy on something that's unimportant and fruitless, it's okay to let them go. Here's your permission slip.