Sense, Nonsense, and Not-Sense

Hm, from experience I found that it's far far far better if you love someone. It's fun and all that but it goes deeper if you love. Without love it can be great and fun, but it afterwards always remained shallow for me...

Several people metioned that they want to have more than one partner because they want to be experienced or that want to satisfy their curiosity.
I think it's not that important, but people who have that wish should maybe better satisfy it before they one day have to try something out while being in a relationship: that always hurts.

For the waiting part: I believe in waiting till you are ready. Till you feel good with it and don't think you have to do it because of something. Waiting till marriage however... it's maybe not the most important part of being married, but it's clearly a huge part of it. If you have sex before you marry you know you're compatible. It's not nice to have you're first night together on your honeymoon and you find out she only has sex when you bellow like a poodle if you're not into that. I don't mean that without the right sex every marriage breaks up, but not few are know to.
(I believe that the wait-till-you-are-married is mainly to prevent fatherless children because women weren'T really able to protect theirselves against getting pregnant).

Sex is overrated, at least I feel so if I see the Media. There is so much more that's nice in a relationship that just being in bed.

Maybe that was a bit confusing and I guess it's diffrent from the male point of view. I was told there's always a chance to get sex if you want to for free, but from my experience it's far better if you don't look for it and you just stumble over someone and it's it.