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silveradeptSpent a good chunk of time with the family eating, plotting, planning, and a little bit of shopping, too. Definitely a good time today.
UT's undergrad library losing the books, going commons-style. There will still be access for people who want to study, but apparently, the library's more of a social space now rather than a research space. Will definitely have to keep an eye on this and see if it works or not.
The Public Service Announcements Department has a request for all persons: Please, no matter how much it looks like they aren't enjoying themselves, please take good care of your introverts by letting them be or by including topics of interest in your conversation. (That particular article spawned an interview with its author recently. Both are worth reading.)
Yet another thing from the Slightly Strange Department - a deconstruction of the idea of magic that upholds the idea of magic, At least, if I'm reading it right, that's what it does. It sounds like a chaotic attack on the slightly more organized and neat magic of the neo-pagan movement, trying to show off why that kind of magic really doesn't work too well. Also a dig at chaos practitioners who end up losing their change powers and start settling down into a system, I think. Still, it's definitely a different idea about how one goes about changing the world and one's perceptions. I wonder if an aphorism that I had thought of before still holds true, namely that "All magicians eventually slide into chaos". It's up to you to decide whether that's a good thing or a bad thing.
Some strange meme crosses my journal, a quick sort of enneagram test, two which I scored the number two.
Helpers are warm, concerned, nurturing, and sensitive to other people's needs.
How to Get Along with Me:
In Intimate Relationships :
What I Like About Being a Two :
What's Hard About Being a Two:
Twos as Children Often:
Twos as Parents:
Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele: The Enneagram Made Easy: Discover the 9 Types of People. Harper San Francisco, 1994, 161 pages
You scored higher than 0% on ABC
You scored higher than 31% on XYZ
The Quick and Painless ENNEAGRAM Test written by felk
And that's the things that stuck around enough in my brain to actually be put down on paper. Tomorrow will try to be interesting as it runs me all over the map. Might actually have to get up for this one to get everywhere I need to go.
UT's undergrad library losing the books, going commons-style. There will still be access for people who want to study, but apparently, the library's more of a social space now rather than a research space. Will definitely have to keep an eye on this and see if it works or not.
The Public Service Announcements Department has a request for all persons: Please, no matter how much it looks like they aren't enjoying themselves, please take good care of your introverts by letting them be or by including topics of interest in your conversation. (That particular article spawned an interview with its author recently. Both are worth reading.)
Yet another thing from the Slightly Strange Department - a deconstruction of the idea of magic that upholds the idea of magic, At least, if I'm reading it right, that's what it does. It sounds like a chaotic attack on the slightly more organized and neat magic of the neo-pagan movement, trying to show off why that kind of magic really doesn't work too well. Also a dig at chaos practitioners who end up losing their change powers and start settling down into a system, I think. Still, it's definitely a different idea about how one goes about changing the world and one's perceptions. I wonder if an aphorism that I had thought of before still holds true, namely that "All magicians eventually slide into chaos". It's up to you to decide whether that's a good thing or a bad thing.
Some strange meme crosses my journal, a quick sort of enneagram test, two which I scored the number two.
The Helper
you chose CX - your Enneagram type is TWO.
you chose CX - your Enneagram type is TWO.
"I must help others"
Helpers are warm, concerned, nurturing, and sensitive to other people's needs.
How to Get Along with Me:
- Tell me that you appreciate me. Be specific.
- Share fun times with me.
- Take an interest in my problems, though I will probably try to focus on yours.
- Let me know that I am important and special to you.
- Be gentle if you decide to criticize me.
In Intimate Relationships :
- Reassure me that I am interesting to you.
- Reassure me often that you love me.
- Tell me I'm attractive and that you're glad to be seen with me.
What I Like About Being a Two :
- being able to relate easily to people and to make friends
- knowing what people need and being able to make their lives better
- being generous, caring, and warm
- being sensitive to and perceptive about others' feelings
- being enthusiastic and fun-loving, and having a good sense of humor
What's Hard About Being a Two:
- not being able to say no
- having low self-esteem
- feeling drained from overdoing for others
- not doing things I really like to do for myself for fear of being selfish
- criticizing myself for not feeling as loving as I think I should
- being upset that others don't tune in to me as much as I tune in to them
- working so hard to be tactful and considerate that I suppress my real feelings
Twos as Children Often:
- are very sensitive to disapproval and criticism
- try hard to please their parents by being helpful and understanding
- are outwardly compliant
- are popular or try to be popular with other children
- act coy, precocious, or dramatic in order to get attention
- are clowns and jokers (the more extroverted Twos), or quiet and shy (the more introverted Twos)
Twos as Parents:
- are good listeners, love their children unconditionally, and are warm and encouraging (or suffer guilt if they aren't)
- are often playful with their children
- wonder: "Am I doing it right?" "Am I giving enough?" "Have I caused irreparable damage?"
- can become fiercely protective
Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele: The Enneagram Made Easy: Discover the 9 Types of People. Harper San Francisco, 1994, 161 pages
You scored higher than 0% on ABC
You scored higher than 31% on XYZ
The Quick and Painless ENNEAGRAM Test written by felk
And that's the things that stuck around enough in my brain to actually be put down on paper. Tomorrow will try to be interesting as it runs me all over the map. Might actually have to get up for this one to get everywhere I need to go.
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Date: 2006-02-20 08:24 am (UTC)Test finished!
you chose BZ - your Enneagram type is FIVE.
"I need to understand the world"
Observers have a need for knowledge and are introverted, curious, analytical, and insightful.
How to Get Along with Me
* Be independent, not clingy.
* Speak in a straightforward and brief manner.
* I need time alone to process my feelings and thoughts.
* Remember that If I seem aloof, distant, or arrogant, it may be that I am feeling uncomfortable.
* Make me feel welcome, but not too intensely, or I might doubt your sincerity.
* If I become irritated when I have to repeat things, it may be because it was such an effort to get my thoughts out in the first place.
* don't come on like a bulldozer.
* Help me to avoid my pet peeves: big parties, other people's loud music, overdone emotions, and intrusions on my privacy.
What I Like About Being a Five
* standing back and viewing life objectively
* coming to a thorough understanding; perceiving causes and effects
* my sense of integrity: doing what I think is right and not being influenced by social pressure
* not being caught up in material possessions and status
* being calm in a crisis
What's Hard About Being a Five
* being slow to put my knowledge and insights out in the world
* feeling bad when I act defensive or like a know-it-all
* being pressured to be with people when I don't want to be
* watching others with better social skills, but less intelligence or technical skill, do better professionally
Fives as Children Often
* spend a lot of time alone reading, making collections, and so on
* have a few special friends rather than many
* are very bright and curious and do well in school
* have independent minds and often question their parents and teachers
* watch events from a detached point of view, gathering information
* assume a poker face in order not to look afraid
* are sensitive; avoid interpersonal conflict
* feel intruded upon and controlled and/or ignored and neglected
Fives as Parents
* are often kind, perceptive, and devoted
* are sometimes authoritarian and demanding
* may expect more intellectual achievement than is developmentally appropriate
* may be intolerant of their children expressing strong emotions
Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele
The Enneagram Made Easy
Discover the 9 Types of People
HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages
What the hey...seems to work for me just fine.
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Date: 2006-02-20 02:43 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-02-21 02:02 pm (UTC)"I am at peace"
Peacemakers are receptive, good-natured, and supportive. They seek union
with others and the world around them.
How to Get Along with Me
* If you want me to do something, how you ask is important. I especially
don't like expectations or pressure.
* I like to listen and to be of service, but don't take advatage of this.
* Listen until I finish speaking, even though I meander a bit.
* Give me time to finish things and make decisions. It's OK to nudge
me gently and nonjudgmentally.
* Ask me questions to help me get clear.
* Tell me when you like how I look. I'm not averse to flattery.
* Hug me, show physical affection. It opens me up to my feelings.
* I like a good discussion but not a confrontation.
* Let me know you like what I've done or said.
* Laugh with me and share in my enjoyment of life.
What I Like About Being a Nine
* being nonjudgmental and accepting
* caring for and being concerned about others
* being able to relax and have a good time
* knowing that most people enjoy my company; I'm easy to be around
* my ability to see many different sides of an issue and to be a good
mediator and facilitator
* my heightened awareness of sensations, aesthetics, and the here and
now
* being able to go with the flow and feel one with the universe
What's Hard About Being a Nine
* being judged and misunderstood for being placid and/or indecisive
* being critical of myself for lacking initiative and discipline
* being too sensitive to criticism; taking every raised eyebrow and twitch
of the mouth personally
* being confused about what I really want
* caring too much about what others will think of me
* not being listened to or taken seriously
Nines as Children Often
* feel ignored and that their wants, opinions, and feelings are unimportant
* tune out a lot, especially when others argue
* are "good" children: deny anger or keep it to themselves
Nines as Parents
* are supportive, kind, and warm
* are sometimes overly permissive or nondirective
Creepy is it not?